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 I could write pages on this one.  I think part of the challenge and satisfactions of a relationships is solving the opinions and behaviors that could become problems.  Diversity in a relationship can enrich it, but sometimes may not.  If a relationship ends, it does not necessarily mean there has been a lack of respect...perhaps just a growing apart that makes a change beneficial for both and others that might be involved.  Relationships, of course, require giving.  After a year of supporting a husband through cancer, I am beginning to understand a whole different side of relationships. When I was younger I thought I might have figured much of this out by 64, but I am realizing again how much there is still to learn.  Thanks for opening this dialogue.